He left me.

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Registered: 10-15-2005
He left me.
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Sat, 10-15-2005 - 10:01pm
I am so sad and so hurt.My boyfried - well ex boyfriend and I just broke up. We started dating in June, I found out he was seeing someone else in Aug, he immediately said he did not want to see her anymore and wanted us to be exclusive. I had my doubts but I agreed to be with him. Everything had been going great then on Thursday he said we needed to talk he said he he was looking for a partner and he didnt think I was it. He said evertime we go out he always pays and I never pay. I told him that I have been short on cash but do expect to get some money in a couple weeks and I have no problems paying sometimes...I also explained being a single mother of two who does not get chils support it his hard but i do not have a problem staying in some nights cooking etc. He's been with many females that have spent a lot of money on him and says I am the first that has been with him for so long and not given him anything. During our relationship he did buy me a silver ring from Tiffany ( a b-day gift)and two pair of $17 pants. He has not spent that much in my eyes. I told him I can not afford to buy him expensive things like some of his past girlfriends and while I am paying for rent, daycare, electricity, phone, cable, cell phone, internet and taking care of three people on one salary. He said he understood and we can work things out. We were fine for one day. He said he would call me the next day at my lunch time and he never called,I called several times then finally went to his home today and he pretended he was not there. I know he was there because his neighbor said he came outside and I told him I was there and he went back inside. He just keeps ignoring me so I guess its over. Im really sad because things were going pretty well before the conversation. Im thinking he just wanted a reason to break up with me because he did not even give me a chance to do the things I said I would do like pay sometimes etc. If he really wanted to be with me he would have tried to work on things but he didnt and I have to face that. This just seems so petty to me and he's 37 and I'm 33.
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Registered: 08-11-2004
In reply to: monique818
Sun, 10-16-2005 - 12:16am
There is definitely something wrong with that picture, a 37 year old man acting like that, 37 going on 21 maybe, he sounds very immature to me, telling you that you dont give him anything? How about your love or isnt that good enough? Well it damn well should be. Are you kidding me when you have two kids and are supporting yourself, absolutely do not call him or go to his house again, he sounds like a complete loser who isnt worth it. You need to do whats best for you and your kids and trust me, he isnt it.
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Registered: 03-27-2003
In reply to: monique818
Sun, 10-16-2005 - 12:25am
I have never used this word on love this board but..he is a loser..I thought he must be about 20 after reading this..be glad he is gone..seriously