He left me!!!!
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He left me!!!!
| Tue, 07-27-2004 - 12:59pm |
After one year and a half of a terrific relationship, my bf moved out on me yesterday. Our lease is up this week anyways, but we had planned to live at my parents house for a few months to save money. He said he felt uncomfortable being with me now because I want a long term committment and he never wants one. He wants to just be in a relationship with nothing else. We are both 26. We talked on Sunday night and he could not give a any straight answer about "us". I thought he would pack and leave Monday since he was off half the day since he obviously didnt want to stay with me! I called him and he said he didn't move out..so i said take the rest of the day off if you can and be out by the time i get home. I just wanted him to say he didn't want that but he DID. I got home and he was gone, even deleted the computer programs we shared! He forgot something and came back for it. WOW. I asked him if we are friends and he said he has no problem being friends.. and then i asked him if he wants me in his life and he said he has no answer to that! I am tore up. I took my cats and moved some stuff home. I think what is making it so hard is that we were perfect together and now he just left. What do i do!!

I'm sorry but you weren't perfect together if you didn't want the same things together. I'm going through the same thing (commitment phobe bf and I broke up Fri). It's hard because you feel like you had this great relationship but if you really do want a long term committment and he doesn't then you weren't getting what you needed from the relationship.
It's probably too early to be friends also. I would suggest no contact for a while.
Good Luck!
Sheryl