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He left me stranded
| Sun, 11-28-2004 - 7:13pm |
It's been three weeks and two days since he left. As time goes by I'm feeling worse and worse. Things really hit me today when I started going through the bills. This summer we bought a huge Ford Expedition truck that I can barely drive and now I'm stuck with the bill because it's registered in my name because of his bad credit. He also ran up $500 worth of parking tickets on the truck and he had an accident. I have to pay to repair this truck before I can try to trade it in for a smaller car. If I don't pay the tickets soon the truck can be towed and I will be unable to renew my license which expires soon. It hurts and upsets me to see how little he cares for me. I didn't really want the truck. He hasn't even called. For all he knows I could be dead. On the message he left breaking up with me, he said he would pay when he gets some money and for me not to worry. I'm worried because at the time he left he had lost his job (the main reason I believe he left) and I don't know where he is or how to contact him. His brother knows where he is but he wont tell me. I think he has a job now, but I'm not sure. I don't really know what to do, but with the pain he's causing me I think it's really unfair to hurt me financially too and he walks away scott-free. The other person that I'm sure knows where he is is his kid's mother. I'm sure he is in contact with her because of the kids. She and I have had friendly conversations in the past, but I'm afraid to call her because I will really be devestated if she tells me he went back to her. But it may be worth it if I can at least find out if he is working and maybe take him to small claims court. I know sure if I'm thinking clearly my emotions are so raw with pain and thoughts of revenge please help.

You are not the only one in this.
My X boyfriend was planning to break up with me for sometime but he came to visit and for his convocation party and during his visit he accepted all my offers to pay for our hotel stay, for our car rental for the celebratory dinner for him and his friends, for gifts and theater tickets... I ended up spending $700 in 2 days. While I was happy to do this for my boyfriend since I had more money than he does, I wasnot happy to do it for someone who will in 2 days become my X!! He thought I was madly crazy about the graduatino of my soon to be X!!
Why in hell would I want to pay all those expenses for someone planning to break up with me tomorrow? yet he accepted it. I feel pitty for some poor people who become so needy and weak they will accept anything eventhough they know it is not right.
Be greater than those few $$. Just think of how small and weak he looked when he did something as inconsiderate and as selfish