He left me then his wife

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Registered: 05-23-2014
He left me then his wife
Fri, 05-23-2014 - 2:32pm

Was together with a MM for almost 12 years.  He;s 14 yrs older than me and was married for 45 yrs.  2 1/2 months ago he told me without any warning that he was leaving me that a few months before someone he had an affair with more than 30 yrs ago contacted him.  3 days after blindsiding me by walking out he told his wife he wanted a divorce and told her everything he's been doing for the last 30+ years.   I still talk to him on ohone and see himoften.  He says this new relationship is going to explode since she also asked her husband for a divorce & now her kids (18 & 21) are barely speaking to her.  I know I must not be in contact with him inh anyway but cannot just move on.  I'm most times depressed, lost, sadf, lonley though function workwise etc when I have to.  Help!