he loves us both. do i stand a chance??

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Registered: 01-15-2007
he loves us both. do i stand a chance??
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Fri, 01-19-2007 - 6:15pm

my boyfriend and i resently broke up. we've been together for a while, and have broken up a couple times....but it was for a couple days, tops. and it we didnt break up because there were problems between us, in our relationship...but because we could never see each other. and each time we did, in fact, break up nothing was different, it was as if we were still together. but this time we broke up for a different reason. he told me that he wasnt over his ex. and this was 4 days ago. he hasnt called me or anything. and this is very unusual because every other time we broke up, he called me every single day. he has been using his friend's phone. so, i called today, i was going to tell him how i felt. but there was no answer. i'm not sure what i should say to him when i do ger a hold of him, though.

because i havent talked to him in so long,i find myself making up stories inside my head about whats going to happen between us. i go back anf forth from, what if they get back together...what if we get back together...what if he gets back with her, only to realize that he wants to be with me more...or what if he doesnt want to talk to me again.

he and i had a very special connection, and i love him more than anything. i mean, when i picture my future, i can not see myself without him.

please give me some advice...or even what you have done in a situation like this.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 01-20-2007 - 7:40am

jazzwima...

Pianoguy thinks there's a major difference between a serious relationship and "a special connection!" (That's the term you used)

Do you like the idea of "being shared" with a 2nd woman? And how can you possibly see a future for the 2 of you if your EX's past g/f is still in the picture?

Pianoguy