he made contact...

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Registered: 07-15-2004
he made contact...
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Tue, 07-27-2004 - 4:05pm
Hi everyone. Today makes it exactly 3 weeks since my ex broke up with me. We dated for 6 months, and I unfortunately fell madly in love with him. He told me that he can't give me 100% right now and we live in different states, so the long distance thing was getting to him. He refuses to talk to me, and I haven't heard from him in 2 weeks. He's the one that made me promise to stay in touch, and now he's the one that won't talk to me. Well, last night at 11:30, he text me and all he said was "night"! What is that all about? We used to text each other "night" right before we went to sleep. Why would he do that? If he's gonna contact me, I wish he would tell me how he's doing, or say hi or something else. Why would he just say "night"? I don't understand him at all! Part of me thinks he accidently text me instead of someone else. I just wish he would talk to me. I'm not mad at him at all. I refuse to hold a grudge or be mad at him for not being able to give me 100%. We knew each other for 3 years and were friends for 1 of those years before we started dating. My feelings are that we tried to date and it didn't work out, no hard feelings, we'll stay friends. I know he needs his space, but why does he think it's ok to not talk to me, then text me this crap? Does anyone know why he would do that?
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Registered: 01-30-2004
Wed, 07-28-2004 - 12:14am
All I can think of it that maybe him texting "night" was his way of trying to be friendly. I would try and disregard it until he makes real contact.....like a phone call or something that is longer than one word. Good luck!!













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