He must be a Sociopath

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Registered: 11-03-2010
He must be a Sociopath
Mon, 11-08-2010 - 12:03am

I broke up with him over a year ago. He treated me like crap during the relationship, did;t care what I did or if his neglect would push me into another persons arms. Basially he was someone who didn;t care about me, claimed to love me and I left.

Now every 2 months or so since a year ago, he has been contacting me asking if we can be friends. It's not from a genuine place because if I call him back he always says he is watching the game, or talking to someone in his family or something like that. I say NO everytime. he wants to know of we can be friends and see if we can have another relationship again...I gave him a two week chance back in Feb to see if he really changed and he didn't. So as I said he keeps on asking to talk to me and then when and if I do, he has nothign to say, he is the SAME PERSON. It's almost like he is doing it for fun because he doesn't care about me right now and never did. I tell him to "kick rocks" and it's like he gets something out of it..pleasure.

If he doesn't love me or care for me, then he is a psycho for keep contacting me. I texted him back this time saying I was getting married and I was pregnant, because I thought that would really keep him away. He says: "Congrats if it's true."

Sociopath, I can't stand him.

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Registered: 01-12-2005
Mon, 11-08-2010 - 2:59pm

I guess if it makes you feel better to think there must be something wrong with him, that's fine, but if you truly want to get past all of this, you need to own up to your actions.

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Registered: 11-03-2010
Tue, 11-09-2010 - 2:43am

There is ABSOLUTELY something wrong with him. But I'm not going to post it all on here.

As far as owning up to my side...I guess living my life and doing what I need to do for myself only to find out that he gets in contact with me through other people is my fault. No. I do not communicate with him anymore.

Yes I answered his banality a few days ago because he pissed me off and that was that. My main point is why is he doing this crap when he said he does not love me, so why bother. It is more annoying than anything.

I am not conflicted about this, I know what I do and that is NOTHING because he isn't a part of my life anymore. I guess what I should ask is: "Has anyone had a weirdo do this before?"

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Registered: 04-21-2008
Thu, 11-11-2010 - 12:04pm