he never loved me?

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Registered: 07-08-2006
he never loved me?
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Sun, 01-06-2008 - 12:44pm
ok so i'm a little upset right now so this may not some out right. I've posted on here before about me and my exes breakup because it was pretty bad, but i've actually been doing good. Until today. Just so u kno me and him went out for four years and were engaged a year. We moved down to florida from new york together but because my mom got sick we came back up, he decided shortly after to go back to florida and i did not. We said after things got better I would move back down so we would try long distance for a while. Well after three months he broke it off said that the long distance thing was too much. Then a week or two later i see on myspace(I hate that site) that he has a new girlfriend and did a month before we broke up. Then a few months later i see that they r having a baby. Now i kno that they got pregnant after being together a month. Oh and shes 18 and hes 22. So today out of my own stupidness I thought i would see what his page says. Well it says there baby is due this month...funny cus we broke up 9 months ago. Oh and they r engaged now. But its not that that hurts me. Its the fact in this survey it answered it asked ever been in love? and he wrote not before i met victoria(his new girlfriend), and what do u regret? he wrote not meeting victoria sooner. I kno that what he did to me was wrong and i would never forgive him. But i would never say i didnt love him. I did. I just don't kno why this is hurting me so much. It just also feels so unfair how come he got to met someone he loved right away and i still havent met anyone after 9 months. any advice would help thanks





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Registered: 05-12-2003
Sun, 01-06-2008 - 1:06pm

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Registered: 01-01-2008
Sun, 01-06-2008 - 1:08pm
He sounds like he did you a huge favor. Love is blind and you got to see his flaws before you got in too deep with marriage and kids, etc. The reason you haven't met someone yet is that you are being careful and cautious to make sure your next relationship is sincere and genuine. You are also smart not to get involved on the rebound. Just take one day at a time and stop reading Myspace!!!