is he really that heartless?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-28-2004
is he really that heartless?
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Mon, 11-08-2004 - 1:16pm
I can't believe my ex boyfriend. What a jerk!!!! I just recently found out that he's working with his ex-girlfriend at a store that she manages. Not only has he lied to me about talking to her pretty much most of our relationship. But, he used to tell me how much he hated her, and that he never really wanted to be with her in the first place. Apparently he said she was crazy and psychotic. Up until last thursday, we were still talking every day. He called me on friday night, but I didn't pick up, and he hasn't called back since. Is he just a coward, and doesn't want to face me to tell me he's working with her. She's had a boyfriend for the past 5 years. Every time I would confront him about talking to her he would deny it, and make me feel crazy for asking. Is he really that ignorant? He used my cell phone to call her. I even saw her number on the bills!!! I don't care that he was friends with her, but he didn't have to lie to me about it, it just made it worse. Now, he doesn't have a car, he's had to sell it to pay off his debt. He has no way to get around. Plus, he's working at a retail store, instead of finishing his apprenticeship to become an electrician. I can't believe he's working with HER!!! He's the epitomy of slime. But what's really bothering me now, is that he hasn't even tried to call since friday night, and before that he would call me every day, since he started working with her. I just need to tell him what I think of him, and have the last word, but I don't want to call him.
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Registered: 01-30-2004
Tue, 11-09-2004 - 11:42pm
It's times like these you need to just be releived that he's no longer your bf and you don't have to put up with the crap. And really him not calling is a good thing and can help your healing process. Good luck and keep us posted!!









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