He said he changed.....
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| Wed, 03-21-2007 - 4:07pm |
My common-law Husband/boyfriend of two full years, We just "celebrated" our 2nd anniversary in Feb. Has chosen to break up with me. This isnt exactly a simple hang up the phone cry for a few days and move on. We have built a house and home together. When i met him I lived in a differnt part of the province, and had a life and career. We had decided that would be best for me to move to where he is. I love it here too, farm life vs the city. Anyway, So he decided that we are to break up. One day he's calling me pet names and cuddling, the envy of all of our friends. The next day he says he doesn't love me anymore, And that i knew this was coming!. I love this man with all my heart, and he states that's half the problem. The other half being that he's changed "evolved". I told him that what he's done is tried to leave me behind, as a cpl we should grow and floruish together not just say well there was a bump in the road I quit.
He's told me i have till the end of the month to remove myself from his house. Apparently now that we are breaking up everything is his.
I am very broken over this, as i do love him even with all the things he has done and said in the lastlil while during this impending "break up". I just dont get how and why a guy can say I dont love you anymore and not show any emtion or care what those words can do to someone's spirit.
Then on top of all this he wonders why im not happy 24/7. I live with a man who can say he loved me for 2 years and 1 day.. on the 2nd day after our anniversay he flipped a switch and stopped.
Do guys not relaize that words speak volumes? I dont know what to do at this point, as I am losing everything i know and have known for two years. I am losing my home, my love, my family in Law. And still he doesn't care??
I dont get it!

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