He said it was over?(M)...but,
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| Mon, 01-31-2005 - 9:57am |
I broke up with my boyfriend of three months about a month ago. We
still talk and everything. And he's breaking my heart. Because, he keeps
bragging about other dating other girls and then he'll whine to me that
he thinks he's too ugly and nobody likes him. And he can't find anybody
that will date him. I'm like helloo.. what does he think i was? I love him
and I thought he loved me. He's said some really ugly things to me. See, when
I broke up with him. I called my ex. from two years ago. we're still friends.
And he went to lunch with me. And I don't know if that's pissed off my current
man or what. I don't know. If he's SO over me. Then why does he rub it in my
face at work( we work together). In front, of my friends at work. That he's meeting
other girls and want to introduce me to them. I don't want to meet them. I want him
back. Cause, this has being going on for a month and I'm at my wits end.
I wish he would eiether be with me or move on and leave me out of his life. What do
I need to do? Does he still like me and is trying to make me jealous? He still calls
and we have some serious conversations now. He confides in me. It's almost like he likes
to make me upset. I've told him a thousand times that I want to be with only him.
But, he's meeting other girls and letting my friend's at work know about it and me.
But, he'll cry to me a week later when it doesn't work out. I'm confused!!!!! Do you
all think he wants to be with me? Or what? Cause, It seems like everytime i turn around
he's there trying to piss me off about him being with another girl. Oh, BTW-- I'm 23 and
he's 19. And everyone tells me that I need to find someone my age. but, I love him and
I want to be with him. Any ideas?advice? Is greatly appericated What do I need to tell him?

I think your ex has you on a string. It would be wise for you to stop talking to him and work on moving forward. If he truly wants to be with you, he will get in touch with you. Right now, he knows he can hurt you however he wants and you'll still be there waiting in the wings.
What was the initial breakup about?
Good question. Cause, I really don't even know the anwser. But, he's a
mama's boy . And I was his first and I think that they made him break up
with me. Because, I thought I was pregant but, I'm not. I have pcos. Which
is a condition that causes me not to get pregant b/c of my weight and the
insulin in my body being too high. I think that he just wanted to date other
girls. I don't really know. B/c things we're going great. Then, he got all
obbessed with making me mad or jealous or whatever.
You need to tell him good-bye is what you need to tell him.