He says im selfish?? am I??
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|Thu, 08-04-2011 - 3:21pm|
I was out here a couple of months ago getting advice on my failing relationship...I got good advice from u guys so i'm back....jus to refresh...we were havng problems because his mom lives with and has ever since we started dating...it was cool at first because he expalined to me that it was temporary...jus helping her get back on her feet. He also has a 9yr old son who is a single father to...also cool..Long story short..I found out a month ago from his mom that she will be staying with him ATLEAST another 2yrs while she waits on "disabilty " to approve her...IF they ever do...she also told me she has been denied 4 times which was news to me..............
She does not work or pay any bills in his apt....they hv a 2bdrm where as his mom and his son occupy those...he sleeps on couch....long story short...im jus fed up with the whole situation so I broke it off....I feel like his mom is really jus a freeloader lookn for a handout and he dont see it...yes...its his mom..i understand that but we can NOT move forward as long as she is there!
I love this man with ALL my heart...he is a great person!! But compete with mom..I cant...He is always stuck taking care of everybody and has no one to take care of him...thats what I wanted to do!! I own my own home big enough for him and his son to live here comfortably...I have a good job..I even make more