He is talking about marrying her

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Registered: 06-19-2006
He is talking about marrying her
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Fri, 06-30-2006 - 2:52pm

For those of you who know me, I am having a horrible day.

talked to my ex last night and he is talking marriage with the women he left me for, we have only been divorced since FEB.

I cried three hours last night... what is wrong with me

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Registered: 06-22-2006
Fri, 06-30-2006 - 3:40pm

Hugs, girl.

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Registered: 03-09-2006
Fri, 06-30-2006 - 3:52pm

Aw hon, what's wrong with you is that you're not a robot. I'm so so sorry. That has got to be like kicking you when you're down. It is 100% normal for you to feel betrayed and hurt and angry and all the other feels you're experiencing right now. The wound is still fresh, and it's going to take time for it to scar over. It'll always be there, but eventually it won't sting.

I think you'd do yourself a favor and not talk with your XH, unless you've got children and he has to be talked to for co-parenting purposes. Then, for your childrens sake, he gets the common courtasy of a stranger, strictly parenting related.

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Registered: 04-28-2006
Fri, 06-30-2006 - 4:44pm

Hi Melissafrasca, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you!!!

He is a jerk and he knows it. Believe me when I tell you. My ex has announced to everyone in his family, (and I am close to his family), that he is getting married to his ex. I was soooo devastated, but with much prayer, I am getting better. It has been since February since he moved and I heard this in May.

So for you, don't worry, what goes around comes around. If it happens, it won't last. I personally don't think he will even make it to the altar. So sit back, watch and wait for the show to begin. You will see everything unfold right in front of your eyes.

Hugs to you!!!!!

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Registered: 06-19-2006
Wed, 07-05-2006 - 10:46am
Thanks for the support. Sometimes I just feel like I go crazy. I totally went of on him then I felt better, but its not fair to him or me to do that. He is very respectful most of the time and I should like the fact that he told me the truth, its just not always easy to hear. I wish I could move on that easily...