he thinks....

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Registered: 01-05-2007
he thinks....
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Mon, 02-05-2007 - 7:30am
New boyfriend thinks I cheated but I didnt. I came home and hes like we`re breaking up. I was like what why? and hes like because I hate you. I was so confused. I didnt understand. And I was like what did I do? And hes like, if you dont know.... How was I supposed to know? I didnt do anything. And then his friend came online, and starting badgering me about why I would do something like that. I was still so confused I just asked what I did. Then he got mad at me for "pretending" that I didnt cheat. And then I fliped out. I was so confused, so hurt that he would even think that. So I asked him friend why he thought I cheated. And he was like, your boyfriend SAW you go to another guys house. I was like, and that proves anything? The truth is, yes I did go to another guys house. But it was my friends brother who had picked me up because my friends mom wouldnt drive. But he wouldnt listen. Hes so content on believe that I cheated. And I dont know what to do. I know the truth. But he just wont believe me. Please, what do I do?
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Registered: 08-04-2003
In reply to: angel4259
Mon, 02-05-2007 - 12:05pm

You have to accept that he's believing what he wants to and nothing you can do will change his mind. Since he decided not to have a conversation with you, know that he's not mature enough to be in a relationship.

Sorry you are hurt.


Carrie

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Registered: 06-22-2006
In reply to: angel4259
Mon, 02-05-2007 - 3:11pm

cl-itwinflame's right, there's nothing you can do to change his mind, since he's so hell-bent on believing the worst about you.

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Registered: 01-23-2007
In reply to: angel4259
Mon, 02-05-2007 - 7:38pm
It sounds like your bf doesn't trust you. Why would you want to be with someone like that? It seems to me he has some baggage from the past that he brought into this relationship. Maybe someone broke his trust in the past and now he thinks he can't trust you. It sucks when old baggage is brought into a new relationship..it happens so often as well, and probably ruins a lot of relationships. I would say leave the guy alone, if he doesn't want to give you the time of day, then don't bother with him.