He told me something but I need advice

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-18-2006
He told me something but I need advice
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Wed, 10-17-2007 - 4:47pm

Hi All!


Me and the ex of year have been broken up officially since Sept 11 but he became emotionally detached a few weeks before that.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 10-17-2007 - 6:56pm

He needed to....hmmm, because he was feeling vulnerable and it made him uncomfortable.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-21-2006
Wed, 10-17-2007 - 6:57pm




hes making excuses. Hes a big boy now, and he needs to learn to control himself not "pushing people away that he loves." its childish. if he "needed to do it" then fine, see you later. Call me when youve matured and know how to handle a relationship. in the mean time, im going out to make myself happy. Bye!


let him work out his own demons without throwing you into the mix. if hes being vague, then fine. he doesnt want to truly communicate with you and THAT isnt someone you want to waste all your time and energy on.


Good luck:)







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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-18-2006
Wed, 10-17-2007 - 10:01pm

Thanks everybody for the responses!


My gut already told me to end all contact and let him take all the time he wants to figure him out.