He wants to end our marriage...

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Registered: 02-05-2007
He wants to end our marriage...
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Thu, 03-15-2007 - 1:49pm
My husband of 2 years just told me (like, minutes ago) that he is no longer in love with me...I am 4 1/2 months pregnant with his child. I am so confused...
We made love twice last night, and when I asked him why did he make love to me, why did he say he loved me, he said it was just sex, that he had spent the entire night thinking why he is still with me. We've had problems in the last few months, dealing with moving to a different state, he just lost his job, my son (previous marriage) giving us problems, my pregnancy... Anyway, I am very confused... He said that he was sorry, and that he really wants to fall back in love with me... What can I do???
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Thu, 03-15-2007 - 2:59pm

Hi redtutsy82 and welcome to the board.


How sad for you, especially right now with you being pregnant.


::and that he really wants to fall back in love with me... What can I do???


Ask him to go to marriage counseling if he wants to fall back in love with you.

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Registered: 03-16-2007
Sat, 03-17-2007 - 12:39am
You should seek marriage counseling immediately from a professional or even a religious leader. Since you are pregnant you should not be in stressfull situations at all, and him losing his job is probably taking a mental toll on him.