He wants to get back together.
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He wants to get back together.
| Tue, 09-07-2004 - 10:50am |
I did really well this weekend w/o him. I had a lot of alone time to think. Then, I get a call yesterday from him wanting to see our daughter. Code for "we need to talk about us face to face." Well, of course he waits till she's already in bed to make an appearance. We talked and talked and talked. Mostly about the good things and how we cherish those stil. But, we talked about the bad things to. His "problem" and how I can't help him w/that. There's only so much I can do. He promised to talk to me when he got the urge. That this week has been a reality check for him. How that isn't the person he wants to be anymore. But, I've heard this before and everything he's promising he's promised before. I hate being alone. No one likes being lonely. But, I'm just not sure what I'm willing to take to have someone standing beside me....sometimes. I just don't know. Part of me wants to give him another chance b/c I do love him and there are a lot of good things in this relationship. Then a part of me is saying HEY!!! What are you thinking?!?!!! Why am I thinking of jumping back into this? Have any of you been through this? Does it get better when you keep taking them back? Do they finally offer something you want? I should run shouldn't I? I'm so confused....Help me please. He's coming back over tonight and I really need to make up my mind. Thanks.
Melissa

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Take it from someone married 17 years and also recovering from recent unfaithfulness from a boyfriend of 2 years. They NEVER get better when you keep taking them back. They NEVER finally offer something you want. Better to stop the make-up break-up cycle now. Good luck.
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