HE WANTS TO SEE ME......................

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Registered: 01-06-2005
HE WANTS TO SEE ME......................
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Tue, 05-03-2005 - 6:46am
My boyfriend and I broke up precisely 32 days ago, we had gone out for 5 yrs.......uhuh!!!! When we had our last conversation I asked him to honour my feelings and not to keep touch with me coz everything was still too new and painful. He opposed this and said that the only way we would both be able to heal was if we kept communicating and learning about what was going on in both our lives. I insisted that we do not do that at all, but that instead we see each other one last time, to formalise our break up. He refused, and I left it at that. A week after our break up, he sends an sms letting me know of recent developments in his life, I never responded at all. Just 2 days ago, on a Saturday at midnight he calls, and speaks to me for so so long, sounding weird all the time coz he was hesitating a lot, and would sometimes just trail off mid-sentence!!! Then he asked me if he could still see me one last time. I said yes!!!!! But I don't know if I did the right thing!!!!!! I am pretty aware of what I want now, but what if he leans over for a kiss, knowing him he probably would!!!! How do I handle that!!!!!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 05-03-2005 - 8:43am

shady68...


Sorry....but your b/f's reasoning is COMPLETE CRAP!


You blew it when you agreed to see him "one last time!"