he wasnt even that nice to me
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he wasnt even that nice to me
| Sun, 12-03-2006 - 8:12am |
help i feel like im the only one in the world who is single i just took the kids to the local swimming pool and it was full of families
im sick off not sleeping at night thinking about him and the worse part is he wasnt even nice to me so why am i so upset
weekends r the worse
im sick off not sleeping at night thinking about him and the worse part is he wasnt even nice to me so why am i so upset
weekends r the worse

I hear you. The weekends are the worse because that is the time if your ex is seeing someone is probably going out. If not, you have so much more free time on the weekends than during the week. I'm in a situation where my ex lives around me and the girl he is seeing if about an hour away. So I know they don't see each other throughout the week, but when the weekends come, my mind goes crazy. I just can't stop thinking about where they are, what they are doing. It makes me nuts. Which I probably am.
You said he wasn't even nice to you, and the same with mine. I think it bothers me so much because I don't want him being nice to someone else, because the person who did everything for him out of love--unconditional love---- he could be so cold and just leave without saying a word, because there was someone else. But, my sister says, he's not going to change. Give it time and he will treat her the same way at some point. She's not getting a prize. I'm going on 3 months, and have regressed so much. Today I am making it day 1 of no contact.
Me 31, DH27, married may2008 went off b/c at that time, no af, PCOS since 17. MTHFR factor. HSG clear, 1st round of clomid 100mg, 1000 mg Metforim late July 09, Waiting to see if O'd.
There are two schools of thought - "It's better to be with someone than to be alone." OR "Sometimes we are more lonely in a relationship than when we are alone."
Journal writing can help purge some of your feelings. You will have to come up with activities and/or good 'to-do' lists for the weekend. There's plenty to do with the holidays approaching. Good luck to you.
Carrie