He wasnt ready for forever
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| Wed, 05-16-2007 - 10:32pm |
My boyfriend and I had been together for 3 years, then out of nowhere he broke up with me 3 days ago. The reason he gave me was that though he loves me a lot and everything is perfect, it scares him that 3 yrs flew by like that. It made him nervous and he isnt sure if he's ready for such a "heavy" relationship. He told me he needed to sort things out because being the guy that met the love of his life at 22 and then married her 5 years later scares him. I dont know what to do because I really really love him and I know he loves me a lot and its killing us. He wants us to be friends and he hopes that when he's ready ill be there but he doesnt expect me to wait. I'm so confused. Do guys really do this? how can u care so much about a person and then end it? What should i do?? Should I wait or is that me just having false hope? Why do guys do this? What is the logic? He's upset and I'm upset and it doesnt make sense. Should I stick around or should I just away? We see eachother often and all this is really hard.. i just need to know whts going on..
- Lemon

Dear Lemon,
Anyone can do this, especially if they think they haven't experienced enough life, seen other things, dated others, etc. If they *THINK* they are missing something, then they are.