He won't return my stuff!
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He won't return my stuff!
| Sun, 11-14-2004 - 12:37am |
I dated a guy for 4 months. We just broke up 4 weeks ago. I had a history of threatening to end the relationship whenever we fought and he finally called my bluff and dumped me. We had a huge fight a month before that and I was told by a friend of his that he was devastated that time when he thought it was over.
Anyway, a week after he ended it, he called and said he'd still like to date, but then he never arranged a date. Then, a week ago he asked me for drinks and cancelled at the last minute to go to a basketball game.
Since the breakup, I've repeatedly asked for the personal possessions I have at his house, and he has been evasive about giving them to me, giving me one excuse after another. This week, he said he had them boxed up and would call when he figured out how to get them to me. (I live less than 2 miles from me, he knows my address, I've offerred to pick them up from the concierge at his place, pick them up at his office, etc.)
It's 5 days later and I haven't heard from him.
Do you think there is hope for our relationship to work? Why does he keep showing interest and then backing off? I've apologized for my wrongdoing (consistantly threatening to end the relationship) and really care for this guy.
Help!!!!
Anyway, a week after he ended it, he called and said he'd still like to date, but then he never arranged a date. Then, a week ago he asked me for drinks and cancelled at the last minute to go to a basketball game.
Since the breakup, I've repeatedly asked for the personal possessions I have at his house, and he has been evasive about giving them to me, giving me one excuse after another. This week, he said he had them boxed up and would call when he figured out how to get them to me. (I live less than 2 miles from me, he knows my address, I've offerred to pick them up from the concierge at his place, pick them up at his office, etc.)
It's 5 days later and I haven't heard from him.
Do you think there is hope for our relationship to work? Why does he keep showing interest and then backing off? I've apologized for my wrongdoing (consistantly threatening to end the relationship) and really care for this guy.
Help!!!!
