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he won't stop trying to get in touch
| Mon, 10-29-2007 - 11:01pm |
Ok after the advice i was given which by the way makes total sense and thankyou so much! i got a txt from Danny i replied maybe a bad thing but i did i said that i needed space and asked him not to contact me for a while until i get my self sorted out. i told him that i would get intouch when i felt comfortable doing so. plain and simple? well since then i have had 17 messages and god only knows how many missed calls from him. the messages basically say that he loves me and dosent want to loose me from his life and know im not sure what to do. i know i should be like well i need to make me better first but at the same time everyone that was supposed to care about him has left him or hurt him in really bad ways. his step dad beat him as a child and his mother let it happen he has scars on his back from a belt. his sister cut contact with him because he was gay and his biological father who recently turned up in his life ended up beating him too and these are just a few examples.

Hi wilson1513,
Here's your previous post for others: Its been 2 months help!
Sounds like his emotions are getting the best of him and he wants to lean on you. Sometimes when you tell someone you want No Contact, it makes them want what they can't have even more.
Either change your number or keep ignoring him.
Wilson, you know Carrie was right about some ppl, they want more what they can't have the sad part of that is they lose what they really NEED!
Hugs,
Dbest
You sound awfully guilty for someone who should have nothing to do with his problems. I've been in a relationship where my SO kept me in it by guilting me every time I suggested we move on. I can assure you, it is one of my biggest regrets that I didn't decide to split up then.
In any case, the bottom line is that a. he dumped you and b. you're not responsible for his problems. Unfortunately for him, it means that you're not his dog - available when he 'needs' you and dumped when he doesn't. Plus, you can't possibly be his only friend in the world. Sometimes if you indulge people too much, they never get the opportunity to try their own strength. He needs to learn to start standing up by himself instead of leaning on other people when things get wrong.
All the best