He wrote me this email..
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| Tue, 09-28-2004 - 11:41pm |
LOOK BABE, ONCE AGAIN, I DIDN'T CHOOSE TO BE SINGLE OVER BEING WITH YOU, WHAT DO YOU NOT UNDERSTAND ABOUT THAT SH**? I WANTED TO SEE HOW I WOULD BE ABLE TO MANAGE ON MY F-ING OWN. LOOK, YOU ARE MY BABY, I LOVE YOU, AND ONLY YOU, I JUST NEED SOME DAMN TIME TO SEARCH MY INNER BEING YOU HAVE BEEN ABLE TO DO THAT IN YOUR LIFE, I HAVEN'T, WHY DEPRIVE ME OF THAT? AS FAR AS THE OTHER WOMEN THEN YES, I WENT OUT LAST NIGHT, YOU DO NOT NEED TO KNOW ANYTHING ELSE ABOUT THAT. YES, I LOVE YOU, YES I WANT YOU BACK- SOMETIME, BUT JUST GIVE ME SOME DAMN TIME, IF YOU CAN NOT DO SO THEN I DO NOT KNOW IF I CAN BE WITH YOU, SINCE YOU WOULDN'T RESPECT ME ENOUGH TO DO THAT FOR MAYBE 2 MONTHS OR SO, AND THATS BULLSH**. AFTER 4 YEARS OF BEING TOGETHER YOU WILL NOT ALLOW ME THE TIME TO BE BY MY GOD DAMN SELF.
I just wanted some insight on anything at all that should be said back to him in response to this email..or what anyone just thinks period about it... I will add that I never asked him anything about any dates he had when where or how.. I never asked.. I never asked him to get back with me or anything.. all I said is that it was ok.. he didn't have to go out with me since he felt the need to be rude and tell me I was not worthy kidding or not... it was hurtful, I never cursed at him or anything else..I didnt ask him about our relationship or pressure him into getting back together.. so any input on what would be good to say to him or if a response is a good ideal or just thoughts on this rude ass email......

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Lynn
Lynn
You know he's just trying to sound like he's sorry because you're not talking to him. He has made himself clear. He said he wants space and time to do whatever he wants. Let him have that time. But let him know that he can't have his cake and eat it too. If he wants space and if he wants to go out with other women you don't want to be exposed to that. NC is the only way you can get through this without being hurt.
Lynn
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