Heart Broken
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| Wed, 10-17-2007 - 10:14am |
I have never posted on any kind of blog before so this may be a little longer than most entries, but I really needed some advice on my current situation. I am in mid 20's and have had my fair share of breakups. I have always handled them just fine. I've really never sat and cried for days over someone and never really dwelled on what if. For some reason though this ex has gotten to me like no others have. We meet in July and from the day we meet we were unsepertable. I just got of grad school so I had the summer off and he was out of school as well so we spent almost every minute together. Things were just perfect. He told everyone that I was the one he had been looking for and things seemed great. Now, this wa coming from a guy who hasn't had a g/f in 3 years, but has dated quite a bit in the meantime. I met him whole entire family and he has met most of mine. His friends love me and vice versa with mine. We were just perfect. At the end of August he had to go back to school and since then we have been commuting back on forth on the weekends to see one another. Now becasue we don't see eachother during the week, we would get into disagreements and would bicker a little. When I say bicker, I really mean quick little disagreements. No crazy screaming matches or anything like that. He always would say he didn't like the confrontation and rather not talk about anything, but I always felt it was good to get things out in the open. I don't know if this is because he was over in Iraq or what, but he has a hard time opening up with his feelings. He's a very blunt guy and sometimes he says are a little insentive, which I call him on it. I usually can handle that kind of stuff, but sometimes he needs to know.
Anways, things have been ok. I really didn't think anything was wrong. I just had my b-day last week and we had a great time. He even wrote in my b-day card that I was a huge part of his life and he hopes that never changes and that I mean more to him then I will ever know.

Welcome to the board sarla2007,
Depending on how conflict was resolved in our home as a child is what makes us comfortable in our relationships when friction comes up.