heartbroken

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Registered: 04-29-2006
heartbroken
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Sat, 04-29-2006 - 11:06pm
my live in boyfriend and i broke up 10 days ago. we lived together a year. he ended it. said something in his heart changed. 2 weeks before we were happy. went away to a b&b. i moved out. when i went to move my things noon was there but i found a box of condoms and a paper from a hotel. i asked him about it. he said to have a good life it was none of my business. he had a cell phone i paid for and i canceled it. he's angry. i looked up his phone records and found phone calls for hours long placed to a girl he works with. his mom tells me he rarely comes home anymore. i know i shouldn't care since we're broken up but i'm heartbroken. i don't want to go anywhere or do anything.but at the same time i wonder what he's doing and how he could move on so fast. he's not sitting home pining over me. why am i still depressed at home. how do i get out of it?
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: angelamerie
Sun, 04-30-2006 - 9:48am

angelamerie...

Pianoguy would like you to think about something very seriously.....

If a man can discard a woman as easily as "tossing out an old newspaper"---would you REALLY want to spend the rest of your life with him?

You've already admitted that your ex ISN'T sitting at home and 'pining' over you. So why are you wasting so much of your time PINING OVER HIM?

He's not worth it!

Now...go out and start living YOUR LIFE...and let 'his mom' do the worrying!

Pianoguy

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Registered: 01-31-2006
In reply to: angelamerie
Tue, 05-02-2006 - 6:43pm

hi angela

this is sound crazy but your exbf is so stup!d to do this to you..well if i'M in your position i will call the girl and tell her about you maybe she didnt know about it. but dont argue just be nice to her. atleast she will start a fight with your ex and they might end up breaking up too..."WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND" right?

well this is up to you. but his crazy so he deserved that!! i know people will think if you did that is wrong. but for my own opinion you just wanna help the other girl so she wont end up getting hurt like what happen to you right? GOOD LUCK




Edited 5/2/2006 6:44 pm ET by jazz_meeh