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| Thu, 01-11-2007 - 9:34pm |
hey new to this so here is my story need help.
Been involved with a guy 10 years.he left before our daughter was born we have a 5yr old together.3yrs ago he knoked up another woman, married her and has been cheating with me for the past twoyrs. he clames he loves me and only married her to hurt me, how do you walk away from someone who has hurt you and our child so much? yet i still love him and wish it would work am i being stupid? Please help
Been involved with a guy 10 years.he left before our daughter was born we have a 5yr old together.3yrs ago he knoked up another woman, married her and has been cheating with me for the past twoyrs. he clames he loves me and only married her to hurt me, how do you walk away from someone who has hurt you and our child so much? yet i still love him and wish it would work am i being stupid? Please help

Stupid is a strong word. My guess is that your self-esteem could use a 'pick me up' and when it does, you will kick him to the curb. If he married her to hurt you and loves you, he could have divorced her any time during the last two years. Instead, my guess is that he likes having his cake and eating it too. He's using both of you.
There are too many people in your relationship. Take yourself out of the game. Seek counseling to help you sort through things and to be able to tell him to go away for good.
Carrie