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| Wed, 07-26-2006 - 12:52am |
due to circumstances out of my control, i had to move 4 states away from my boyfriend. he and i were together for 11 months and i am very in love with him. we decided to break off our relationship when i made the move but also decided to stay friends. its been an ok situation until recently when he decided to hang out with other girls. he says he has no intention of doing anything besides be friends with any of them and i believe him. hes never lied to me before. it turns out that the girls hes been hanging out with like him, and when i found out all of my defenses came crashing down and ive been depressed (cant eat, cant sleep, cant focus on anything) and have cried enough tears to fill the atlantic ocean in teh past couple of days. anyone have any advice on accepting this situation? im truely at a loss for what to do.

~~.: Sandra :.~~
Hi there,
I'm not in a pleasant situation myself and I'm going through same emotions as you... but I've been in a couple of long distance relationships and I have to tell you that they rarely work... The only time it works is when you know there's an end to it. Are you moving back eventually?
Sometimes, one person sacrifices and move for the other person but I find that that also doesn't really work either because that person will always remind the other person about the sacrifice he/she made everytime they fight or something...
Hang in there... I hope everything works out.