HELP!

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Registered: 10-12-2004
HELP!
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Wed, 11-24-2004 - 8:41pm

lately, i've been having dreams about my ex
it's been going on for about three days.

i have been functioning pretty well, lately,
definitely moving on and all that jazz, but
these dreams make my days suck! i wake up,
instantly thinking about him and in a haze
thinking we're still together, or we're in
another fight, or believing whatever happened
in the dream...and that brings my mornings down.
i just get depressed...

how can i make them go away?!

can anybody relate/help?

thanks so much <333333

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-24-2004
In reply to: blargleargle
Wed, 11-24-2004 - 9:58pm
when my ex and I were still together, I used to have dreams that he would be breaking up with me in the most horrible fashion, there was someone else and he was in love with her, that he didn't love me anymore and I should leave him alone. And I would just sit there and listen to it for a long time. I would say, leave your TV or radio on lightly as you sleep, sometimes it can really effect the kind of dreams you have in a really fun way sometimes too=)
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Registered: 11-18-2004
In reply to: blargleargle
Thu, 11-25-2004 - 12:12am
I can totally relate to what you are saying. The same thing is happening to me. On the weekends when I want to sleep in I wake up so early because of some dream I've had about my ex-boyfriend. Then during the week, I have the same dreams, and I wake up way before my alarm, and then I'm so tired during the day, because I couldn't sleep. I don't know how you can make them go away because I'm still trying to figure that one out.
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Registered: 10-12-2004
In reply to: blargleargle
Thu, 11-25-2004 - 12:48am

i don't know what to do...
i'm feeling more lonely than i've felt in a
long time...part of me thinks it's because
of the dreams, and part of me thinks that
it's because of the holidays.

i'm so tired of being alone.
ugh, it just seems like i'll
never find someone!

i'm sorry this comment is so down,
but i'm just in depressed mood right now.
i dont' want to sleep, because i fear
i will dream of him again!

sigh...i'll just keep on going like i have
been. it just upsets me though, because i've
been doing SO good, and since those dreams
started, i'm not doing that great. :-\

happy thanksgiving everybody.
we can do this. we are strong, and
we are worthwhile. at least that's
what i keep telling myself...hopefully
i'll start to believe it!

<3333 good luck all you girls, and thank
you so much for your replies.