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| Tue, 09-28-2004 - 5:13pm |
My boyfriend who I was going out for almost a year just broke up with me. He said our time was over, and that he had "changed". He also said that he didn't love me anymore, but I think there is more to this situation. I think that he was pressured by me wanting forever with him, and he is also pressured with the way his life is right now. I want to get him back because I believe that he is the one for me. I need to understand why he did this when he seemed so happy with me. I don't believe that he stopped loving me soon, but I believe there is something else going on with him right now, and I just need to figure things out. I need to find a way back into his heart. If anyone has any advice about a situation like this, please help me.

I'm so sorry to hear about your break-up....I know it's tough and you're going through several emotions. I know you don't agree with your bf's decison to end things....but you have to learn to accept it and respect his descion. You can't make him change his mind....he has to do that on his own. That doesn't mean he will though....and if he doesn't change his mind then you'll have to accept that to. But we're here to help no matter what. I find it easier if I go on as if he's never coming back and then if he does it will be a plesant suprise but it you go on thinking he'll come back and he doesn't....it will just be that much more devastating.
And no I don't think he just "quit" loving you but he has his reasons for ending things and maybe one day he'll share them with you...but then again he may not. But no matter what we're here to help. There are people here going through simillar things and I'm sure they'll be more then welcome to share their stories with you and you can help each other through this. Gain from each other's experiences....get stregnth from them, and always a bending ear. Good luck and keep us posted.