Help with break-up please!
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Help with break-up please!
| Sun, 07-22-2007 - 7:49pm |
Hey Gang new to this site but need some crucial advise. I have been seeing my boyfriend for 1 year and a half. He lives with me and I feel like I'm ready for a break-up. But he has nowhere to go, no furniture no car and all his friends are losers. He could stay in the apt but I don't know that he could afford it. I feel guilty about his situation, but I also feel like I'm ready to be independent and stand on my own. Any advise would be appreciated

And how exactly does he manage day to day? Are you supporting him?
If you are, I don't think it's unreasonable for you to tell him to get himself a job and start carrying his side of the relationship. You're not his mother and trapping yourself in a relationship because he can't or won't contribute is highly unfair to you.
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Hi and welcome,
I guess I'm wondering what you're feeling guilty about, it is
sarah