Help getting over an ex...

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Registered: 04-30-2003
Help getting over an ex...
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Sun, 06-05-2005 - 12:00pm
Hi there, I have a complicated situation that I need some advice about. I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 5 months. We've known each other and have been friends for almost a year. Although it wasn't a long relationship, I fell hard for him and still have feelings for him. The problem is we still see each other four days a week. We are in school together, in a situation where we are forced to be around each other. He still wants to work things out and be together...I have terrible insecurity issues that lead me to not trust him. I don't want to have a dramatic situation where suddenly I sit on the entire other side of the room because everyone will notice. I know it sounds childish and I really shouldn't care what other people think but the whole group of us have to be in class with each other for the next 11 months. Does anyone have any advice or any experience with a situation like this? How do I handle the times we are in class together? Just not talk to him and not sit anywhere near him? I really don't know what to do. We are both adults - me 26 and him 27 - and I assume the answer should be obvious but it isn't. It hurts to see him, I love him but need to get over it. Help! :)
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Registered: 05-01-2005
Mon, 06-06-2005 - 10:14am
do you want to work it out w/him?