HELP Is he lying about what he said 2 me
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| Tue, 05-31-2005 - 9:14pm |
Hi everyone my first time to this board but need some serious help please.
Boyfriend of 3 months broke up with me a month ago. We were casual, not sure what to name it, but I did a lot of the work to keep us together. Asked him if he wanted to get more serious and he said no, wasn't a girlfriend and never would be. Then he gets real nasty and says a lot of other stuff about me, real rude and shocking because I was always polute to him and never critical (could have been, but wasn't :)
So I was really upset about it and really confused for two weeks and really hurt also (says he wants nothing to do with me but sent a few emails and called and when he does it is like he was rubbing it in my face that he brokeup with me. So why bother? I met a guy last week, really nice and seems like a potential boyfriend, so we went out two times that week and plan to go out again. Nothing serious, but a new guy who seems to like me and I could see me with him.
My ex called me and we were talking in general, then he asked me if I m seeing anyone. Don't know why because when he broke up he made it clear he wasn't interested in me. I said yes, then he gets all upset, wants to know all of the details and how serious it is. Didn't tell him much (none of his business) and reminded him of what he said when we broke up - didn't want me, didn't have any interest in my life, etc.
So now today he sends me this email, denying everything he said when he broke up and tellig me he wants to see me again (live about an hour apart) and wants to make plans to visit. I send back and email saying no, and remind him again of what he said when we broke up and he denies it again, and says I misunderstood what he said, he would never say those things.
So what do I do now? And why is he denying everything?

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Thanks so much for everyone who replied to me! All of it has really helped and makes me feel good to let this guy go.
Its funny because I sent an email yesterday telling him I wasn't interested and to move on and he sent one back quoting some of the nice things I used to write or say to hum, but using it as his own words (he never once said anything nice to me but just laughed when I would say nice things or complement him and that used to hurt alot).
Im reading it thinking 'I have heard this before' and was getting confused again then I realized 'wait a minute, those are mine words!' He can't even come up with his own words to tell me how he feels!
I am starting to think he has more problems than I can deal with and that no matter what his problems are always going to be blamed on me or made to be mine and not his. I haev already blocked his email and phone number and am not going to have any contact with him.
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