Help! He won't stop calling me!

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Registered: 05-23-2003
Help! He won't stop calling me!
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Sun, 01-07-2007 - 1:42pm

I broke up with my ex-bf about 2 weeks ago.

    
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Registered: 08-04-2003
Sun, 01-07-2007 - 8:07pm

Consider changing your phone numbers. In the meantime, on the machine at home, the second you hear his voice, delete it. On the cell phone, set his number(s) to silent so you don't even hear it ring when he calls, then later go in and delete them.

The gift cards, flowers, etc. he's trying to buy you. Don't call him and go over the rules again, IGNORE him. He wants you to give in and talk no matter what the topic is.


Carrie

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Registered: 01-22-2006
Sun, 01-07-2007 - 11:29pm
He sounds like a wacko. Gift certificates? Return everything and don't answer the phone.
No note, just return. He's in obsessive lunacy. Stay away from this guy.

Susan




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Mon, 01-08-2007 - 12:31pm

He called again this morning and is telling me that I'm acting like a child because I won't answer the phone! He also said that he's only willing to put up with this behavior from me because "you're so special", and no one else would give me the time of day...I don't know what part of "broken up" he doesn't get...


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Mon, 01-08-2007 - 12:38pm

Stop listening to his manipulation. Who cares if he thinks you are being childish - he will say anything to get his way!

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If you want to improve, be content to be thought foolish and stupid. - Epictetus


Carrie

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Registered: 06-08-2006
Mon, 01-08-2007 - 2:53pm
I agree with Susan, do not accept the gifts and don't answer his calls. Eventualy he will get the hint. It doesn't matter if he thinls you are childish and you won't know what he thinks if you delete his messages and don't even listen to them.