HELP! HOW DO I GET MY CLOSURE
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HELP! HOW DO I GET MY CLOSURE
| Thu, 10-11-2007 - 9:35am |
SO ME AND MY EX OF 3 YRS BROKE UP ABOUT A MONTH AND A HALF AGO, THRUOUT THE BREAK UP HES BEEN BITTER, HES SAID MEAN THINGS AND THEN WHEN I BACK AWAY HE RANDOMLY TEXTS ME HE MISSES ME, I HATE U! WHYD U HAVE TO BE SUCH A B **** I WISH WE WERE STILL TOGETHER BLA BLA...WE BROKE UP BC WE WERE FIGHTING A LOT, HE SAID HE FELL OUT OF LOVE.AND NEEDED TO FOCUS ON HIMSELF FOR NOW.....I AM SEEKING CLOSURE.....HE WONT GIVE IT TO ME, HE STILL HAS SOME OF MY THINGS AND OWES ME $500 AND HE WONT GIVE IT TO ME, I DONT CVRE ABOUT THAT I JUS WANT MY LAST TIME TO SEE HIM AND HAVE MY CLOSURE, HE WONT GIVE IT TO ME HE CALLS ME PSYCHO AND CRAZY.......LAST NIGHT I SHOWED UP AT HIS HOUSE..HE REFUSED TO COME OUTSIDE I WAITED, HE CAME OUTSIDE SCREAMIN HIS HEAD OFF CURSIN ME OFF, HIS MOM CAME OUTSIDE THE NEIGHBORS CALLED THE COPS, I LEFT CRYING......THEN HE TRIED CALLIN ME A FEW TIMES AFTER AND I DIDNT ANSWER...HE TEXTED ME WITH..WOW I HATE YOU SO MUCH!!! HE HAS SO MUCH ANGER TOWARDS ME, MEANWHILE I WAS GOOD TO HIM I DONT GET IT!!! WHAT SHOULD I DO? CHANGE MY NUMBER? AVOID ANY CONTACT AT ALL?

WHAT SHOULD I DO? CHANGE MY NUMBER? AVOID ANY CONTACT AT ALL?
YES, YES, YES!
you're never going to get closure from him; the closure will have to come from you.
Welcome to the board tats212,
Closure is something you give yourself. It comes with acceptance.