HELP ME...

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Registered: 09-07-2004
HELP ME...
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Fri, 07-13-2007 - 2:04am
So...how do you know when the heart is broken? Is there an audible SNAP;or is it a gradual thing? HE, that wonderful F***king HE, has broken me until I don"t think there is anything else.
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Registered: 01-04-2004
In reply to: blackhillsgold
Fri, 07-13-2007 - 12:20pm
Aww...I feel your pain. I felt like mine was ripped out of my chest, shredded, and then little pieces stuck back in. But it does get better!! Keep you chin up!!
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Registered: 04-27-2007
In reply to: blackhillsgold
Sat, 07-14-2007 - 8:51pm
I believe the effect is just like any horrible physical injury: Your mind will protect you from unbearable pain-this is called 'going into shock'. Be grateful for the time you are in shock, because it doesn't last. Then you have the pain that you feel is unbearable, but your mind thinks you can handle. The 'mind' is very powerful, and it is capable of healing a broken heart. At least that is what I've learned to do and it works, pretty well, for me. I used this in the Army when I went through Airborne School. I would repeat in my mind "Mind over matter" & "Nothing to it but to do it", during the runs (which you could not fall out of or you failed the course). I swear, there were occasions when I had actual out-of-body experiences. I do admit, with my broken-heart, it takes more effort, but I'll do or try anything to not feel that pain.
Tina

Tina Marie