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| Thu, 05-24-2007 - 11:43am |
Okay so in a nutshell by boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me about a month ago for various reasons (i.e. wanting to see whta was out there, sleep ith other girls, being selfish, inability to handle the commitment etc). So I have been trying to get over things and am going out with friends and making new ones.
We had tried to have a friendship but I just couldn't do it right away so I cut off contact for a few weeks so that he could think about things and what he wanted from this break up. About two days ago we had a discussion about things. Basically, he feels terrible. He says that he made a mistake and never should have broken up with me. He thought that life would be easier without me but it's actually harder and he didn't realize how much I meant to him and did for him. I basically told him that I didn't want to get back together right away. That I was still hurt and afraid that he would hurt me more. I thought that he may need more time to mature.
Last night I was out at the bar with a bunch of my friends and saw him there. I went over and said hi and we talked for a few minutes. Then I went back to my friends. After leaving the bar I got a text message from him basically saying that he was hurt that I didn't say bye to him when I left. Long story short, we ended up talking on the phone about our relationship and how we were both hurt and I ended up crying.
We are supposed to talk more today. I don't know what I want. He wants us to get back together and so do I (just not as we were right before we broke up). I'm just afraid that things won't be different. What do you guys think? Any advice or opinions would be greatly appreciated!

Hi Susie and welcome to the board,
::He wants us to get back together and so do I (just not as we were right before we broke up). I'm just afraid that things won't be different.
Have you told him this?