Help, re-lapsing!
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Help, re-lapsing!
| Thu, 06-14-2007 - 10:19am |
Oh my god I'm miserable today, I've been crying my eyes out for the last hour and I can't shake it off. I was tidying my room today and found some old photos and an old letter from my ex under my bed, and I ended up re reading the letter and it hurt so much. It was from about 3 months ago when I was away for 2 and a half weeks training, and my (then) boyfriend used to phone me every day really upset and missing me. The letter was from when we were very much in love and is so sweet, we'd only been together for 2 months, and the letter says how much he loves me, how he can't wait to have me back and so on. 5 weeks after getting back from this training he dumped me saying he didn't want a relationship anymore and needed space which obviously devastated me. I've been doing so well moving on for the last 2 months, but reading that really rocked me. How can you be so in love and then not want to be with someone within the space of about a month? Really don't know what to do, it really feels like I've ripped the scab off a wound, and I just miss what we had so much.
Please help!
Emma x
Please help!
Emma x

littlehiltsy..
Pianoguy has a musical suggestion for you.
Listen to the Bob Dylan tune: "LOVE IS JUST A 4-LETTER WORD!" (The Joan Baez version is excellent)
Not only will the lyrics help you adjust to "being without him"...but you might get an insight on when and what to believe when it comes to GETTING SERIOUS OVER ANYBODY?
Good Luck!
Pianoguy
Hi littlehiltsy and welcome to the board,
Sorry you are having a bad day.