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| Mon, 02-27-2006 - 10:02pm |
I am 20 and have been with my boyfriend for 2 years... this is my first long term relationship. We have lived together for over a year and have bought basically everything together... but I've fallen out of love with him.
He is great, I just don't see myself marrying him and I know I need to end the relationship now for his sake but i have no idea how to do it. he has no idea this is what I'm feeling and I know he is gonna be totally blind-sided...
Someone please help me, how do I break up with him?

from a guy's perspective, i would appreciate honesty. thank him for what he gave and shared. tell him u want to break - up. you think it's forever, but you'd like to take a month (fill in the time yourself), to see what life without him is like. no contact from either of you during the alotted time. then after that time, check in with him. tell him you're sure about the break-up(if you are), or tell him you're sure you want to continue the relationship (if u were wrong) and if he still wants it too. i would suggest focusing on urself during that time and not jumping into another relationship (or someone else's bed) right away.
good luck,
michael
The other poster is right, you need to be honest with him.