Help. What to talk about?
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Help. What to talk about?
| Thu, 04-19-2007 - 2:26pm |
Hello,
I need your help urgently. He broke up with me 3 weeks ago over the phone. We did not talk since. He is coming tonite to pick up his stuff and we agreed to go for a walk and talk.
I dont know what to talk about? should I tell him exactly how I feel or just play along and see what he has to say.

It would be helpful to know more about the nature and dynamics of your former relationship, and what lead to it ending.
Talking about a relationship so soon after it ends is usually not a good idea. Three weeks is not a lot of time, and ideally, "moving forward" versus reflecting on the recent past, should be the standard.
There might come a point when the two of you can talk about things, but it doesn't have to be right now.
mblade2006
"Just because everything is different
Hi Juilara,
If after the walk, you will reget not speaking up, speaking your truth, then you need to do so. However, I don't recommend you start out on the 'attack' - go with the flow, let it be a nice conversation if possible and see what he has to say.
Well, what do you want the outcome to be?
If you want to reconcile, believe it or not, talk about anything BUT the relationship.