He's moving on

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Registered: 04-21-2005
He's moving on
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Wed, 11-07-2007 - 12:11am
Hello,
It's been about 3 weeks or so since I last logged on and I'm logging on to report another set back in the road to healing my broken heart. I had been speaking to my ex for a week on and off. Well, today, he told me that he is ready to completely move on and already has someone lined up. I'm devastated because I hoped that we would get back together, not only for me but also for my son, who is fond of him.
I had been trying to make things work btwn us and sat around for 4 months waiting for him while he had fun and possibly cheated on me. He'd come in and out of my life and promise me that we'd be together and because that's what I longed for, I believed him.
Amazingly, I haven't cried my eyes yet and I don't know if it's because I'm still in shock or because I've been away from him for 4 months that I don't miss his presence. Whatever the case is, he's made up his mind about not being with me. He gave me the speech, "It's not you, it's me". I'm so disappointed because after 3 years together and 4 months of waiting for him to come back to me, he decides to end it all and already has someone else to come home to. I'm so hurt right now but I did this to myself because he kept telling me that he "could not give me what I wanted". I'm so mad at myself, at him and I don't want to move on with my life being hurt and angry. Any advice?

Aly

Aly

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Registered: 09-28-2007
Wed, 11-07-2007 - 2:32am

i'm sorry, but he's an @ss on so many levels. it's good that you feel anger because that'll help prevent feelings of wanting to get back with him. you deserve better.


from what i've been reading, hearing and experiencing for the past month and a half, i know everything's

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Registered: 10-25-2007
Wed, 11-07-2007 - 10:09am

No you cannot get like that. You are so much better than him and you know this. That man shouldn't even call himself

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Registered: 11-07-2007
Wed, 11-07-2007 - 11:11am

you know what?

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 11-07-2007 - 11:51am

Welcome to the board mariacm68,


Thanks for participating.

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Registered: 08-02-2007
Wed, 11-07-2007 - 12:03pm

Aly, u have a son to live for and that a$$ doesn't care enough to have someone in his life that he can count on and that loves and respects him, then that is his decision.

Hugs,

 

Dbest

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 11-07-2007 - 12:06pm

Hi Aly,


You accept that you are human and that your decision to wait was one that you made with the info available at the time.