HE'S TRYING SO HARD TO CONTACT ME
Find a Conversation
HE'S TRYING SO HARD TO CONTACT ME
| Mon, 09-13-2004 - 12:03pm |
Ok my boyfriend and I of 4 years broke up, on September 9,2004, and so basically I have been crying gallons and gallons of tears since the event happened. It happened because he wanted to see other people he was giving me suddle hints in his actions that he wanted space.. He was talking of being attracted to others girls and thinking of going out with them,his phone was ringing off the hook with girls numbers he claimed not to know etc. So I asked him what he wanted to do he wanted to see others so thats where at now. Ok well basically I have severed contact although hard and painfull I needed to do this for my own sanity. So he's writes me an email yesterday telling me that i am the one for him and that he loves me and doesn't want to be with out me. Well my heart felt a little better but just as the note ended he say's pretty soon. Meaning not now but again after he is done having his fun. So it felt bad again so basically he is still not right. Other details in the letter he talks about this and that being wrong with him and that he needed me to talk to him about it because of my nursing and medical background. So he asked me Could I please get back to him. Well my problem is that I am scared to open up the window to allow him to talk to me even for this because it is just going to hurt me but I want to help him if he has a medical problem.. However before when we have had problems and contact had been limited he has done things to reel me into to talking to him and then he would go in for the kill to win me back. So my question is should i talk to him and answer his questions about his medical problems and hurt myself alittle doing this or should i just continue to ignore him ? Any input would be apperciated..
THanks
Lynn

Don't feel sorry for him. Stand your ground. Life is too short to be lived in pain and misery. You deserve a man who wants to be with you and is willing to work on a relationship.
Sheri
So he's stringing you along, keeping you waiting in the wings with false hope, on the back burner so to speak and that is so unfair to you.....because if you were the one for him, he wouldn't have sent you and email, he would have showed up at your door with a ring and proposed.
Carrie
He needs to figure out what he wants....seems to me he wants to play, but keep you on the back burner for when he finally realizes that YOU are such a great thing...and he's ready for an actual commitment. That is not fair to you hun. Run far far away. I know it's hard. But he's using you. Keep that in mind. He's messing with you right now, and you don't deserve that kind of treatment. No one does!!! Take care of you right now.
hugs,
karen