High and Dry, just like the song...
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High and Dry, just like the song...
| Tue, 11-13-2007 - 10:18am |
Its going to be one month of been single tomorrow and i'm really nervous. Nervous because its not fair that i'm struggling so much every day to continue life with out him. I don't understand how I can miss someone so much and yet he is not worth it. He hasn't communicated with me since the night of the break-up, not even a single 'hello'....
Why miss someone why cry for someone why think of someone whom doesn't even remember you? At least thats how I feel in my case. ITS NOT FAIR! And yes I do know that life is not fair, I do know that but still....
I so try my hardest everyday to smile to keep thinking that it does get better and even if its for only moments through out the day I do believe in that. I can't help to wonder if I tried to contact him what would happen? But then again why would I want to do that? It would just put me back to square one and I definately don't feel like been there (with the eyes so swollen, with a face so sad that it makes "Eeyore" from winnie the pooh look better than me!)
Every day I log on to read this message board and I feel very welcomed but I also feel that its not fair for all of us to be in this situation. I think that most of us are so great that I keep wondering why do end up like this? I read story after story and where do we go wrong? Why did we choose not to see the 'red flags' in relationships? What are we missing? Sorry if im asking too many questions....
So yes tomorrow is one month of been single and although I'm doing so many things I just can't help to get triggered by a stupid love song or by a stupid 'sandals' commercial (this week i was supposed to be in the caribbean with him, instead i'm doing things to prepare myself for the months to come). I wish that there was a doctor like the one from the movie eternal sunshine of the spotless mind and erase everything from him....
But then I remind myself that if that was to ever happen then I could never learned from my mistakes and eventually I would commit the same mistake sometime in the future.
Why miss someone why cry for someone why think of someone whom doesn't even remember you? At least thats how I feel in my case. ITS NOT FAIR! And yes I do know that life is not fair, I do know that but still....
I so try my hardest everyday to smile to keep thinking that it does get better and even if its for only moments through out the day I do believe in that. I can't help to wonder if I tried to contact him what would happen? But then again why would I want to do that? It would just put me back to square one and I definately don't feel like been there (with the eyes so swollen, with a face so sad that it makes "Eeyore" from winnie the pooh look better than me!)
Every day I log on to read this message board and I feel very welcomed but I also feel that its not fair for all of us to be in this situation. I think that most of us are so great that I keep wondering why do end up like this? I read story after story and where do we go wrong? Why did we choose not to see the 'red flags' in relationships? What are we missing? Sorry if im asking too many questions....
So yes tomorrow is one month of been single and although I'm doing so many things I just can't help to get triggered by a stupid love song or by a stupid 'sandals' commercial (this week i was supposed to be in the caribbean with him, instead i'm doing things to prepare myself for the months to come). I wish that there was a doctor like the one from the movie eternal sunshine of the spotless mind and erase everything from him....
But then I remind myself that if that was to ever happen then I could never learned from my mistakes and eventually I would commit the same mistake sometime in the future.

Hugs to you! Your post is almost word for word for the place I'm in today. I don't have anything inspirational to say, I just wanted you to know that I'm feeling the same things you are feeling.
hugs, lisa
Hi floridianchic,
You are entitled to a bad day, not that we want them or like them.
Oh i feel exactly the same way.
I guess we are all in the same boat.
Welcome to the board drsallen,
There's some tips:
When he asks for space (aka, "a break")
How you let go? It's really simple actually - you don't contact him at all. And in the resulting silence, your lives will unravel themselves and the letting go will just happen. Where the effort goes is to consciously keep up no contact every single minute until you're finally clear of it all.
All the best
- There comes a point in your life when you realize who matters, who never did, who won't anymore, and who always will. So don't worry about people from your past - there's a reason they didn't make it into your future.
All I want to say is thank god for this board! It has helped me deal with issues I would have never had the strength to face head on...
It will get better... Although it may not seem like it some days. It will get better! Read your little heart out! I have read two books in the past week and I feel like I can conquer the world!
Why men love bitches
The RUES
Try them :)