His X connacted me WTF
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| Fri, 05-11-2007 - 7:16pm |
I broke up with him yesterday and posted my sad story under the header "Please Help Me"
I was angry and sick to my stomach. He had been talking with his X for months now behind my back. Am I bad person for not being able to deal with the fact that my boyfriend is still in contact with his X and that they are supposedly best friends - somehow I don't think many woman would be able to deal with that - and if you can - you'd be an incredibly confident person.
Anyway - I had sent her and the other female he was dealing with an email - albeit not a very nice one and had also sent her a message via MySpace apologizing to her - cause none of this is her fault. She responds with this:
"hi,
i wanted to let you know that i got your messages yesterday. thank you for letting me know.
i know exactly how you feel right now. i was there about 2 years ago.
this might be hard for you to believe right now but i truly think he's is a good guy. he is one of my very best friends and i think he has a good heart. i just think he has some personal issues (like why he lies) that he needs to work on and figure out before he gets involved in a relationship. that's just my opinion.
again thank you for telling me. he hasn't been completely honest with me throughout this whole thing either although when he did speak of you he spoke highly.
good luck with whatever you decide to do."
I don't know what to think about that - I don't know if I should even try to think about it either. What's the point - it's over... right?

I have a question for you: were the emails romantic in nature, or were they just regular, random emails? I'm asking about both the ex and the other girl.
Reason I ask is because more than one woman has posted her story about how she "caught" her man talking to some other woman, or even an ex, and come to find out it really was just a friends situation and nothing more, and the woman destroyed her own relationship with her jealousy, insecurity, and by jumping to conclusions.
I'm hoping that's not the case here.