hmmm... kinda confused

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Registered: 05-18-2007
hmmm... kinda confused
Tue, 05-22-2007 - 11:41am
I met this guy 4 years ago at my cousin’s boyfriend’s party, I wasn’t attracted to him when I saw him there, I noticed him b/c he was starring at me and started feeling uncomfortable. Then a year later a group of us went out to the movies and he was there also , we have a good time we ate , and saw the 40 year old virgin. The next day I have an incoming call from my cousins boyfriends cell when I pick up it was his friend and started talking for a lil bit he said he had a nice time last nighte that if there was any way possible that he can get to know me better, so he took my # and we began talking, then dating…. 2 months later he asked me to be his girl I said yes(talk about opposites attract). Its been a 1 ½ yrs now (of course like every relationship we‘ve had our ups and downs) in June 06’ we had a huge argument and he broke up with me. We lost all contact I wouldn’t call neither would he, until October I received a call from him trying to work things out, I gave him another chance, b/c I still cared and had feeling for him( he was my first ). By November we had broken up again and lost all contact except when he call me for my birthday and 2 or 3 times that we saw each other by coincidence b/c I happen to be with my cousin and he with my cousins boyfriend. Now 8 months later, he calls me last Saturday and says oh how have u been?.... then I go wow that’s weird your calling me… and he says im just calling to congratulate you b/c I heard you graduate next week and just got a great job with one of the countries top insurance, im very happy for you I wish you the best, and we spoke for a lil while… and then he says I saw u yest. Around your way you were looking beautiful…. At the end of the convo. He says im gonna be in contact with you so maybe we can go to the movies or something or even chill with cousin and her boyfriend if you want. So obviously he’s been asking around what have I been up to b/c he is well updated on my 411, also my cousins boyfriend told me about a month ago that he had asked if I had seen anyone since I had broken up with him (which I haven’t by choice though) im very surprised that he call after so long… do you guys think he’s trying to get back in the picture??? I’ve turned down many great guys in these past 8 month but I also don’t wanna get my hopes up to end up being without him again… even though he’s someone I take seriously, im tired of this nonsense, but I do still care and have feelings for him, I just don’t know how to let go…. What do you guys think???