hold on or let go?

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Registered: 02-17-2008
hold on or let go?
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Sun, 02-17-2008 - 7:27pm
Okay, so my boyfriend and I just recently broke up about 2 weeks ago. I am still upset & crying all night. What happened was that he suddenly "lost feeling" and became apathetic. However ironically, his ex girlfriend was also feeling the same way with her boyfriend at the time. The two became closer & started talking about their problems to one another. I quickly became jealous & when I called him once, he actually ignored my call and claimed "I didn't hear it." But I knew he was on the phone with her. Both of them say that they don't have feelings for each other because they just got out of serious relationships. But what am I left to do, when all he does is text/call/IM her? What am I supposed to think? I can't help but still feel a little bit jealous because I obviously still love him. What I don't understand is how he can just stop loving me after we went out for 9.5 months? We were such a good couple, we barely fought. I tried to talk to him, but every time, he always says he's going to nap, eat, or go out. I feel like I'm trying so hard to remain best friends with him, but he's not doing anything. I miss him a lot and I don't know what I can do to make him miss me or come back to me. It also doesn't help that our 10 months would have been tomorrow. What should I do?
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 02-18-2008 - 3:14pm

Welcome to the board muahx33,


Let go.