holidays got me bummed
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| Tue, 12-14-2004 - 10:34am |
so, i've been broken up w/my ex now for almost 4 mths. for the last week or so, i've been comsemplating on writing him "the letter" but lately i just can't help to miss him. i guess since x-mas is next week, i miss us doing our x-mas shopping, i miss wrapping all the gifts that we purchased for each other's family but most of all, i miss his touch.
some days i hate him w/a passion, and other's i think about him constantly. its like i know what to do, but somehow cannever muster up the courage to actually do it.
i was going to call him yesterday b/c i was feeling very blue about our current relationship. so i called, the phone disc-and i called again, this time i left a message telling him that the reason i haven't returned his phone call was b/c i was bz and that i wanted to talk. he still hasn't called me back yet.
so my question is -why am i still so emotionally attached to him if we've been broken up for 4 mths now? should i write the letter or should i call him to see what's on his mind before i write it?

Forgive me if I'm confusing you with another poster, but if I'm not mistaken, you've been in contact and even sleeping with him for most of the time you've been broken up, correct? So...how exactly would you have broken the emotional attachment? That takes no contact.
No, you should not write the letter or call him. What you need to do is not have any contact with him AT ALL for a good long time.
Sheri