The Holidays Suck

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Registered: 10-11-2004
The Holidays Suck
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Fri, 12-14-2007 - 9:00am
My boyfriend and I broke up 3 weeks ago.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Thu, 12-20-2007 - 12:50pm
Welcome to the board delawarediva and thanks for participating.





iVillage Member
Registered: 10-11-2004
Thu, 12-20-2007 - 1:45pm
I don't even pretend to be happy - I'm not very good at hiding my emotions...
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Registered: 11-16-2007
Thu, 12-20-2007 - 2:43pm

Just started reading this message board because I just broke up, too. Its been a little over 3 weeks, (we were together over a year exclusively - his idea) and my bf did the same thing - actually he told me a flat out lie to go out with another girl who lives 5 1/2

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-16-2007
Thu, 12-20-2007 - 6:20pm
I know a break up hurts and especially at this time of year. Please don't dwell on this and let it ruin your holiday spirit. There are worse things that could happen to a person. Look at the positive stuff in your life. Your home, family,health,

 

Mireya-Zestfulone

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Registered: 11-01-2007
Thu, 12-20-2007 - 7:04pm

Hi ivdaisy4,


I also just broke-up with my bf. We haven't talked since December 1st. My heart is aching and I am sorry you are having a difficult time. I want to stay in bed all the time, but just started a new job...that doesn't work too well together! I am going to get some support thru my new job and their employee assistant program. I also found some self help books when I

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-09-2004
Thu, 12-20-2007 - 7:56pm

I am having a hard time too. I think you are strong to maintain "no contact". I cannot do it. But my ex cannot even look at me, and is behaving irrationally. And I hate it when people say all of the cliche remarks. Stay strong, and if you are able, enjoy one aspect of the Holidays. I have not even been to the mall or purchased anygifts. But I did put up a tree, and I love my crystal ornaments, so I focus on those.

seachells

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Fri, 12-21-2007 - 11:50am
Welcome to the board zestfulone and thanks for participating.
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Fri, 12-21-2007 - 11:55am
Welcome to the board capushinmonkey and thanks for participating.

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