Hooked up with ex...very depressed.

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Registered: 07-23-2006
Hooked up with ex...very depressed.
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Wed, 01-16-2008 - 10:06pm

I broke up with my ex-boyfriend about a month and half ago and we hooked up twice afterwards. I'm having crazy thoughts in my mind

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 01-16-2008 - 10:45pm

Welcome to the board esorogidni,


It's normal to feel depressed. It will pass if you work through what you are feeling.

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Registered: 11-26-2007
Thu, 01-17-2008 - 1:14am

The only way to get over him is to stay away. Pull yourself together! No man is worth killing yourself over (or even thinking about it). I know it's tough, it hurts like hell. It's like someone's stabbing you in the stomach over and over, and you just want to throw up until there's nothing left, right? Take solace in the fact that every single person on this Earth with a heart goes through the same thing at some point in their lives.

Stop letting him bed you with no strings attached. You CAN say no. The first time will be the hardest, but you'll get that rush of self-esteem, at having done the right thing, that you'll never go back. The harsh words may make you angry, but you say you know you can get over him, so DO it! Erase him from your phone, don't answer his calls, go out with friends, do something else, anything that can keep your mind off of it for now.

It will get easier, I promise, but only if you take the first step. If you keep sleeping with him, you'll get your heart broken over and over, and he should NOT BE ALLOWED to have that power over you.

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Registered: 06-22-2006
Thu, 01-17-2008 - 4:10pm

Hi esorogidni,


Being sad, very sad and depressed, even angry

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