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How to be friends
| Tue, 11-02-2004 - 6:36pm |
Some of you may have read my earlier posts - I was dating a guy for about two months when he decided he wanted to go back to his ex-fiance to try and work things out. I was and still am upset because there was nothing really wrong with our relationship up to that point. He just realized he wasn't over her and wanted to get back with her. Since then we've exchanged a few emails and have decided that we'll try and be friends, somehow.
I read alot of posts in here from women about how they broke up with their exs because they were mean or not treating them right. Being friends with these exs is always out of the question or "easier" because these exs were never good to them to begin with.
My question is this: if there was nothign really wrong with the relationship, how does one remain friends? I'm finding it so difficult to keep in touch with him. It's like having a friend you have feelings for and you can't express any of these emotions. It's so difficult. Any kind of support or advice would really help.

Sheri
take care of yourself...if he decides to break up again with this fiance he will know where to find you...but keep dating and do not wait for him...
good luck....
P