how can he be so cold??
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how can he be so cold??
| Sat, 01-19-2008 - 10:35pm |
i made the mistake by breaking nc. something i never should of done.i called his phone from a diff cell
| Sat, 01-19-2008 - 10:35pm |
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Hi cuteness,
I know what you mean about guys being cold sometimes. After 10 years of friendship and 3.5 years of a relationship mine got upset enough 3 weeks ago to take off from our house and back to our hometown and hasn't talked to me since. I think that them being cold is a defense mechanism or makes them feel better about what's going on. Who knows?
Edited 1/20/2008 4:34 pm ET by marcie1617
Edited 1/21/2008 4:36 pm ET by mdrsfr
Hey cuteness_17 -
YOU ARE OKAY WITHOUT HIM. You are an awesome person WITHOUT him. Please realize that.
Why is he so cold to you? Because he is an immature jacka$$. He isn't that perfect guy you want him to be. The reality is that he's NOT your soulmate. You're missing what you thought you had with this guy. Your missing what you thought he was. Based on the facts, he is not cool, not ready for a relationship, not respectful, not worthy of your time.
What you need to do to get over this, is to take him out of your life for GOOD. You can't take a magic pill and make the pain go away. We've all looked for that and unfortunately it doesn't exist. :(
But if you cut out what is toxic in your life and causing you pain, then you will get through this! There is no way that this guy is good for you. We all can see it. And believe me, there is NOTHING you can do to change him. No matter how much you try, he WILL NOT CHANGE.
I hope you're looking into therapy and building your self esteem, so you don't have to rely on some douche-bag to give you happiness.
You're cool enough on your own.
Good luck
Hi cuteness_17,
You will make yourself crazy if you keep checking his page AND you will make yourself crazy if you try to figure out why he hasn't taken the picture down.
He's cold because he's rude.
hi,
i know what you're going through. my boyfriend just broke up with me on monday. we were together almost two years and we had lived together for a few months. he goes to school in florida and i live in maryland and he had drove up and stayed with me for 3 weeks, his christmas break.
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